
Parting Glances(1986)
Michael and Robert, two gay men living in Brooklyn, spend their last day together before Robert leaves for Africa on work assignment. Michael still has feelings for his friend Nick, who has AIDS.


This is a combination coming out and first love story. The swimmer and diver Lucard is interested in attractive Martin. The film follows the characters' coming out with all its difficulties, the bitter-sweet pleasures of first love and the dreadful moment when one comes down to reality and realizes that one's beloved friend has a hard way to go yet. The positive message the film tries to transmit is the somewhat common motto "Live each day of your life as if it were your last."

Jean-Michel Portal
Lucas

Marcial Di Fonzo Bo
Martin

Mathilde Seigner
Lise

Vittoria Scognamiglio
Rose

Jacques Hansen
Père de Lucas
Stéphane Lévêque
Mathieu
Karim Lounis
Pablo

Bernard Nissile
Millau
Bruno Bonomo
Prêtre
Stéphane Giusti
Jérôme
The Man I Love is a drama, comedy film released in 1997 exploring themes of sexual identity, france, swimming pool, hiv, janitor, break-up. Directed by Stéphane Giusti, it stars Jean-Michel Portal, Marcial Di Fonzo Bo, Mathilde Seigner. This is a combination coming out and first love story. The swimmer and diver Lucard is interested in attractive Martin. The film follows the characters' coming out with all its difficulties, the bitter-sweet pleasures of first love and the dreadful moment when one comes down to reality and realizes that one's beloved friend has a hard way to go yet. The positive message the film tries to transmit is the somewhat common motto "Live each day of your life as if it were your last."
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